“I’ve fallen head-over-heels for him (her),” “It was love at first sight,” “I just can’t help being in love with her (him).”
Do any of those sound familiar to you? More often than not, something like this is said when a believer in Christ starts dating, or even marries a non-believer.
Does the scripture have anything to say on this subject? Read this passage in
2 Corinthians 6:14 - 18 (NASB)
Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness? 15Or what harmony has Christ with Belial, or what has a believer in common with an unbeliever? 16Or what agreement has the
“I will dwell in them and walk among them;
And I will be their God, and they shall be My people.
17 “Therefore, come out from their midst and be separate,” says the Lord. “And do not touch what is unclean;
18 “And I will be a father to you,
And you shall be sons and daughters to Me,”
Says the Lord Almighty.
It is easy enough to blame “love’s irresistible charms,” but the truth of the matter is, we DO have a choice. The principle is the same in 1 John 2:15 - 17 (NASB) where we read
Do not love the world nor the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. 16For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world. 17The world is passing away, and also its lusts; but the one who does the will of God lives forever.
Merely claiming to be part of God’s family obligates us to follow this principle by the very name “church.” Not the local church, but the church referred to by the Greek word ekklesia, which means “called out;” called out of the world, away from the things that displease God, to Christ our Savior.
If you are married to a non-believer, the scriptures say stay that way (1 Corinthians 7:12-13), but if you are only dating or considering a serious relationship with one that does not believe in Christ as their Savior, meditate upon God’s Word on the subject.
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